Here's a conversation between Pornie and I on Monday. Check it out!
B’Nie says:
i've been thinking about ppl in college
B'Nie says:
i think i might not like a lot of girls
kl says:
gues so
B'Nie says:
hopefully what I predict won't come to pass
B'Nie says:
oh well, i'll just be an island by myself until I find someone not so “lebih”
B'Nie says:
haha! what if I become “lebih” too?
kl says:
herm
kl says:
wish u luck then
kl says:
u're not la
B'Nie says:
ppl change in college
kl says:
i changed?
B'Nie says:
surely you have changed
B'Nie says:
in what ways you've changed, I'm not so sure
B'Nie says:
since it's been a long time since I talk to you face to face
kl says:
but i dont think any of us will change
B'Nie says:
we will la KL
B'Nie says:
everyday ppl go thru changes
B'Nie says:
small ones perhaps
B'Nie says:
but it will accumulate
B'Nie says:
and if we don't keep in contact with someone
B'Nie says:
the next time they see us, they'll be astounded with the changes
B'Nie says:
'cause they didn't see the changes progressively
kl says:
true i guess
kl says:
but its kind of sad knowing tht
B'Nie says:
we should still learn to accept ppl even though they've changed
we can't just ignore
B'Nie says:
but it's easier to say all these than do it of course
kl says:
yea i know tht but wht if like one day one of your best fren sees u and just say hi and then bye?
kl says:
unlike the past where u all can continue talkin for hours and hours
kl says:
i mean when u don hav anything in common anymore
B'Nie says:
then maybe it's just time to move on
kl says:
gosh life is scary
B'Nie says:
at least you know that once upon a time, you and that person had lots of memories together
B'Nie says:
yeah..
B'Nie says:
of course it'll be sad a thing
kl says:
but i'm tht kind of person tht hope it lasts
kl says:
haha
B'Nie says:
but if the other person is just unresponsive and you did your part then there's nothing more you can do about it
B'Nie says:
yeah, i hope my friendships last too
B'Nie says:
i have very few close friends hahah
kl says:
yea but u wont know what wil happen to them
kl says:
if don talk to each other as time goes by dont u think u'll hav ntg in common anymore?
B'Nie says:
ok..look at marriages for an instant
B'Nie says:
surely there must be more to relationships than having something in common right?
kl says:
ya
B'Nie says:
you're bound to get bored with someone
B'Nie says:
after spending lots of time with them
kl says:
well most of the marriages are due to commitment
B'Nie says:
yup
B'Nie says:
so are friendships
kl says:
but i feel different in the term for friendship
B'Nie says:
you don't just leave the person once you're bored with them or once you feel like nothing anymore
B'Nie says:
but it's hard la
B'Nie says:
coz friendship is not exactly marriage
i feel friends are the people we hav fun wid, the people we went through hard times wid
B'Nie says:
most ppl just let go once they have nothing in common anymore
B'Nie says:
but it's ok if both parties feel that way
kl says:
for marriages u hav to look after ur family
kl says:
its so different
B'Nie says:
if it's one-sided, then it's hard la for the one who's holding on
kl says:
well i dont tihnk i'll ever giv up on my friendships
good, then
kl says:
but lets jus say i did my part and my fren doesnt it would b reli hurtful isnt it?
B'Nie says:
yup
B'Nie says:
but at least you know you tried
ahahah
kl says:
its like when they hav new friends they'll jus dump us
kl says:
its like u're my past , get lost
kl says:
haha
B'Nie says:
hahah.. yeah, i hope i won't need to go through that
B'Nie says:
but then again, I think I may not pursue if it happens
kl says:
yea.. some ppl when they hav new frens they'll jus dump their old frens
i mean, in this world there are so many more interesting, nicer people than me
kl says:
u're nice la
B'Nie says:
so it's not surprising if ppl leave me when they found nicer friends
kl says:
juz hope i don hav such ppl as my frens
B'Nie says:
hahah
kl says:
but even if they find nicer ppl they cant jus leave u
kl says:
cant they jus be greedy and take both
B'Nie says:
so u see, it's not really about how interesting and how much u have in common with someone
B'Nie says:
i think ppl just kinda grow on u
B'Nie says:
and u just need them around you - that's it
kl says:
guess so
B'Nie says:
heheheh..take both? hahah can
kl says:
tht would b me
kl says:
its ok being greedy right
B'Nie says:
it's not greedy
B'Nie says:
it's just being loyal
kl says:
LOL
kl says:
herm
kl says:
i think most of our frens are great
B'Nie says:
yup
kl says:
so should b ok right
B'Nie says:
yeah
kl says:
but the thing is like jus say u're walkin in the mall wid ur NEW frens
kl says:
then u saw me or something
B'Nie says:
i'll introduce u to them as my pet Pornie
kl says:
u'll juz come and say hi how are you then u'll walk away wid ur NEw frens d right?
kl says:
well thats about it?
B'Nie says:
u wanna come along?
B'Nie says:
can of course
B'Nie says:
haaha
kl says:
haha err think better don use me
B'Nie says:
if you meet me with my future bf, i'll bring u along too
B'Nie says:
u can bite him if he tries to be funny with me
B'Nie says:
hahahah!
kl says:
but what if there’s like sensitive ppl.. jus coz u spend time wid ur new frens they get angry etc
B'Nie says:
what?
kl says:
i'll LAUGH
B'Nie says:
okay..ppl like that ah... i'll tell them tht they shudnt be so sensitive la
B'Nie says:
after all, i know u longer than i know them right?
kl says:
oh ok
kl says:
haha yea
B'Nie says:
exactly
B'Nie says:
so if i go dating, i bring u along k?
kl says:
LOl don.. dowan to b lamp post
kl says:
i'll kena ignore
kl says:
its normal right like u said
kl says:
haha
B'Nie says:
hahahah
B'Nie says:
but even weirder is
B'Nie says:
let's say ur gf can't get along with ur frens
kl says:
yea
B'Nie says:
i think that's an even bigger prob
kl says:
yup i kind of understand
glad u're my master
kl says:
haha
B'Nie says:
glad you're my pet Pornie
kl says:
LOL
kl says:
like tht day we all went to joann’s hse
kl says:
bird and me wasnt interested in NS at all
kl says:
and we were like so boring then haha
kl says:
herm hope so
kl says:
and u xl josef was like so excited bout ns
kl says:
well thts wat i said
kl says:
we're losing our common topics
kl says:
slowly we wil hav ntg to talk about anymore
B'Nie says:
no la.. we just didn't have enough time to warm up that day
we don spend enough time together?
B'Nie says:
yeah
kl says:
haha thts kind of wht i meant
B'Nie says:
i mean, before we can get down to the more fun crazy stuffs
kl says:
breaking us apart
B'Nie says:
we need to warm up 1st and all
B'Nie says:
hahahahaha
B'Nie says:
well, you can't exactly keep everyone right?
kl says:
yea
kl says:
but for me and bird i think we prefer to talk and laugh
not bout those serious stuffs
B'Nie says:
i can do both
B'Nie says:
hahahah
kl says:
thts y we like to make a fool out of ourselves
B'Nie says:
yeah, fun!
B'Nie says:
funny la
kl says:
no offence but sometimes seriuous talk is so boring
kl says:
haha
B'Nie says:
not like those days in school... we meet everyday
B'Nie says:
and do crappy stuffs
kl says:
when i make myself a fool at least i'll b laughing
kl says:
and i'm pretty sure some of our frens were enjoying themselves too
kl says:
right?
B'Nie says:
yup
B'Nie says:
hahah!
kl says:
so thts wat i meant by spendin time wid frens
kl says:
quality time
B'Nie says:
Of course la, unless they have no sense of humour
it's hard now
B'Nie says:
everyone's busy
kl says:
yup
kl says:
walking their own path
kl says:
haha
B'Nie says:
in fact, you might not see me online so frequently anymore in May onwards
kl says:
yup
kl says:
i don on9 tht frequent anymore also la
B'Nie says:
I don't even sms Scruncies much
kl says:
u c
kl says:
thts wat i meant by bond breaking
kl says:
haha
B'Nie says:
no la..when we meet up then we really talk la
kl says:
haha good for u then
B'Nie says:
because I'm not those type of ppl who really sms a lot and all
B'Nie says:
i prefer talking or chatting
kl says:
oo
Well, that's part of what we chatted about. There's more stuffs of course, but that's Top Secret.
I hope you guys can connect to whatever we chatted about. See, friends are important! Therefore, the moral of the story is, don't forget old friends after finding new ones. You can at least try to repair the bond that might be slowly breaking. At least you did your part right?
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